The date is set, the location is picked, and now you are ready to create amazing photos out of your love story.
The problem?
You don’t know what to wear.
It’s a problem many couples face when planning their engagement session.
Why?
So. Many. Options.
Overwhelm to analysis paralysis.
Because of this, I have written this engagement session style guide for you. To inspire clarity within your self expression as an individual and as a couple.
Modern engagement photography focuses on capturing you and your partner as you are, just amplified.
Take the tips that resonate and leave the ones that don’t.
This is the Engagement Session Style Guide.
Tips for Her
Wear a dress
It’s no secret why runways are filled with women in dresses, they truly flatter the body best on film.
Long, flowy dresses are particularly flattering and great for photo sessions in nature. The way a dress flows with even the slightest breeze or catches the light just right can add an ethereal quality to your photos.
Whether you're twirling in a meadow or strolling hand-in-hand by the water, a dress creates movement and grace that pants simply can’t replicate. It's like your own personal wind machine—effortlessly romantic, endlessly flattering, and undeniably timeless.
Plus, let’s be honest, there’s something empowering about stepping into a dress that makes you feel like the goddess you are, ready to shine in every frame.
TIP - Amazon dresses are a great way to try on lots of different dresses quickly and return the ones that are not perfect. Dress shopping on Amazon does require paying some attention to reviews.- look at what other shoppers are saying about the quality.
Go big
Have you dreamed of a tulle skirt, showing off that special shared interest, or another extravagant accessory?
What about incorporating your car, or even other visual effects?
This is the time to go for it.
What may seem over the top in your mind can photograph beautifully, adding a touch of magic to your images.
Some couples have even wanted to incorporate colored smoke into their session!
Bring a second
So you want to go big but you also want to capture the more “normal” look you have? That’s ok! Bring an outfit change!
Bringing a second outfit to your engagement session allows you to get the best of both worlds.
Imagine starting the session in something casual like a chic blouse with skinny jeans or a skirt, capturing those candid, playful moments that show off your chemistry. Then, switch it up with a formal look, like a tailored suit and an elegant gown, to create stunning, timeless images that belong in a gallery.
Or maybe you want to showcase a themed look—something that reflects a shared passion, like a vintage-inspired outfits or using colors from your wedding palette.
With two outfits, you can tell a fuller story, blending the intimate with the iconic, the relaxed with the refined. Plus, if you're unsure about what will look best, we can discuss your options together. Just schedule a call, and we’ll figure it out!
Remember, included with all of my engagement sessions is at least one planning meeting where we go over all the details that make your photo session a one of a kind experience.
Accessorize
Accessories add layers.
Layers add dimension.
Dimension adds interest.
Go for a big statement necklace, dangly earrings, or stacked bracelets. Just be careful your accessories don’t compete—stick to one or two bold pieces.
It could even mean getting the perfect nails or getting your lashes done for all those detail photos. These personal touches make your photos uniquely yours.
And don’t forget about accessorizing the scene. While the location itself offers visual interest and layers it may not give a peek into your personality. Don’t be afraid to bring your favorite bottle of Champagne, a picnic setup with charcuterie to show your interest in food, or even some sports accessories to show your shared love of your favorite pastime.
Flatter your figure
I totally get it—being in front of the camera can feel intimidating, especially when you’re thinking about how you’ll look in the final photos.
But here’s the secret: the right outfit can make all the difference. Picking pieces that flatter your figure helps you feel more confident and at ease, which naturally shines through in the photos.
Think about outfits that conceal any areas you might be a bit self-conscious about, like flowy tops or dresses with 3/4 length sleeves that give just the right amount of coverage while still looking stylish and elegant.
And don’t worry, I’ve got your back when it comes to getting the most flattering angles.
My job is to make you feel comfortable and look your absolute best. Whether it’s making sure the fabric drapes in just the right spot or how a dress moves with you, I’m there to capture those moments that highlight your beauty in a way that feels natural and true to you.
Bring on those flowy dresses and tops that make you feel like a million bucks, because together, we’ll create photographs that celebrate your best self.
Wear heels, bring flats
Heels elongate the legs and look amazing on every woman. Go for it with the heels! And if you are worried about your feet getting tired bring a pair of flats or sneakers for in between photos!
Go Pro
Take the guesswork out of your look by going professional with your hair and makeup.
A lot of my brides use engagement photos as the trial run with their wedding day stylists.
If you need any recommendations for professional hair, makeup, or any beauty services, I have a large list of professionals waiting to serve you.
Colors
Florescent and bold colors do not photograph as well as muted, soft, and more neutral shades.
No matter how amazing your outfit is you want the focus to be your chemistry and the love shared. If your outfit distracts from that or casts a color shade you will be disappointed with the outcome.
If we are creating photos in an outside location that has a lot of green stay away from a green color palette.
Why?
Because you don’t want to blend in with the background but rather contrast with it.
Don’t match, coordinate.
A cohesive image is not made by wearing the same color top and bottom. A beautiful photo is achieved when the look of everyone in the photo is coordinating but not necessarily fully matching.
Chose 2-3 main colors as your primary palette and then add accents for each person from there. Layering with accent colors builds dimension, expresses personality and gives the photo life.
Tips for Your Other Half
Matching Formality
Are you wearing a dress?
A full gown?
Or perhaps a more casual and understated look?
You will want your partner to match the vibe without any overshadowing.
Dress Up
Solid color suits are very flattering on most people. Especially if you have a more formal look you are going for.
If suits really are not your thing go for nice pants and a button down shirt. This combo gives you options to accessorize and show your personality as well.
Accessorize
Socks, cufflinks, ties, tie clips, belts and vests are all great ways to show off personality and style. These small details contribute to a polished, put together look.
If they aren’t an accessory wearing person, think about bringing an accessory that fits your style as a couple, or shows off a way that they represent them.
Military?
Musician?
Maker?
By including things like military awards, instruments, or even that Rolex, you can really make the photos together a lot more meaningful.
Choose the right fit
Being comfortable in front of the camera is important but that doesn’t mean wearing oversized, baggy items will look good. Make sure your partner’s ensemble is tailored well to their body.
Fit can a make or break a person’s styling.
Oversized, baggy styling does come and go with trends. I always encourage my couples to express themselves though their personal style. If you want oversized and don’t need any direction, go for it!
A well tailored style remains timeless.
Be at ease
Being in front of the camera is not my favorite either.
Do something for you before the session (grab a bite to eat, hit the gym, whatever helps you get into a positive frame of mind) so that you can be at ease.
Thats it friends.
Following these simple tips will give much more clarity and direction to the outfits you and your partner wear for your engagement photos.
Remember, included with all of my engagement sessions is at least one planning meeting where we go over all the details that make your photo session a one of a kind experience.
For more inspiration be sure to check out my Pinterest Boards and Instagram!